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I have the pleasure of writing on a variety of topics those things of interest to the Forever Young audience of readers in Lake Minnetonka, Minnesota. The following is a list of short columns that have appeared in the Lake Minnetonka Navigator.

November, 2000 Veterans Day, 2000
December, 2000 Holiday Travel
January, 2001 Go Ahead and Internet...Everyone Else Is!
February, 2001 We Haven't Passed On Passion
March, 2001 Luck Of The Irish - A Gift Worth Sharing
April, 2001 "You look like the breath of spring!"

This column appeared in the November edition of the Lake Minnetonka Navigator (MN):

Veterans Day 2000:
A Lesson In Duty, Honor and Country

By H.P. Barrett III

November Column JPG Henry Sublette is now in his eighties, slightly bent and slow of gait. His hearing isn't what it use to be and I've watched him read - twisting in the light to recast the shadows that fall across the page and his eyes.

His heart is strong and his blood is pure. Perhaps the cardiovascular system may not medically test so positive, but for those who have been blessed by his joyful presence, he is a man among men.

I met Henry, recently, at the Veterans Hospital in Big Spring, Texas where he now resides at the nursing home with his wife Lorraine to whom the years have not been so kind. Although crippled physically and mentally, Lorraine, herself a veteran, is still a beautiful woman.

Veterans who come and go at that facility marvel at Henry's dedication to his wife. Caring for her as much as he is able, he stays by her side day and night and watches over her. And at least twice a day, Henry Sublette will push her in a small bed out into the sunshine and quietly "walk" her up and down the long, gently sloping sidewalk that faces the hospital - the one that passes beneath the grand flag.

But this story began over 50 years ago.

Henry Sublette survived the infamous 1942 Bataan Death March and more than three brutal years as a Japanese POW. Death, by his own admission seemed at times to be expected, accepted and preferable, "I didn't care any more, I couldn't care," Sublette remembers.

When liberation finally came at the end of the war, Sublette was still given little if any chance to survive being so undernourished, and physically and emotionally ravaged. But survive he did with the help of the miracle named Lorraine.

This angel of mercy nursed Henry Sublette back into the world cleansing his wounds, nourishing his body and tortured soul, and "hiding my liquor!"

"She saved my life in more ways than one," he tells everyone, "I was so bad then, in many ways, but she always stuck by me and now it's my turn to take care of her!"

There are monuments, memorials, walls and parades to honor those who served, but perhaps it is the men and women like the Sublettes who personify Veterans Day. They are the blood, guts, courage and love that lives on to remind us why so many served, fought, and even died.

I know thousands of veterans, like Henry and Lorraine Sublette, who believe that Veterans Day, like Labor Day, Memorial Day, and Thanksgiving belong to the family - present, past and future.

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December 2000

Holiday Travel...Fares and Unfairs

Forget the exotic travel destinations and the domestic group rates and fares. Just getting to Peoria alone to see family over the holidays is tough enough.

Air travel figures are up and fares are no bargain compared to a year ago - this is a fact about which most Americans are keenly aware. But advertising from every portal claims to simplify booking and promises to save you money and make the drudgery akin to a free pleasure cruise in the Golden Isles.

The Department of Transportation told the airlines in early October that they must tell customers that cheaper fairs might be available on the Internet or face legal action. Travel agents are not under any similar mandate.

A recent study also found that Internet sites that promise lower fares generally did not do as well as the flesh-and-bones agent. So, the best advise, still, is to know your local travel agent and do a little of your own homework before spending money unnecessarily.

Also be aware that travel rules have changed greatly over the past couple of years. Check-in times, even for domestic flights, are now one hour prior to boarding, and carryon luggage restrictions have everyone confused.

A recent network news story pointed out that carryon baggage restrictions vary from airline to airline and even they seemed to be confused about their own individual rules. You are advised to confirm these restrictions with your airline of choice.

If you do plan a holiday-get-away vacation, the AARP continues to warn travelers of scams that exist regardless of the season.

These include the Instant Travel Agent offers and Vacation Certificate scams that have specifically targeted the more mobile and travel-active older Americans.

For a complete look at prevalent scams you can visit the AARP travel scam web page at http://www.aarp.org/confacts/money/travscam.html

The general advise offered, however, will hold true during this and every season.

March 2001

"You look like the breath of spring!"

"You look like the breath of spring!"

That would be quite a compliment, but as country-comedian Minnie Pearl liked to tell it, "What he actually said was, 'It looks like you just came through a long, hard winter!'"

However you came through the winter, spring is finally upon us once again! I'm not sure if I remember what it is that a young man's thoughts are supposed to do this time of year, but for older Minnesotans, springtime is always a season of special rejuvenation and rebirth.

When we think of spring, we think of flowers - we all do. This is both a phenomena and gift of nature, but it seems that with age we come to appreciate our flora more, and somehow equate it with all life and give it almost mystical qualities.

"Irises are the first flowers of spring... crocuses, daffodils, and, of course, tulips," says a dear friend from Cambridge. "And nothing says Minnesota like Lilacs!" she gushes.

Actually, I'm partial to rhubarb, but I like my flowers more and more as the years go by, and rows of color separating the beans, greens, tubers and taproots wouldn't be a bad idea.

I asked her about local planting seasons for both flowers and vegetables. "My grandfather used to always plant potatoes on Good Friday, it was the way old people did it," she answered. That's a great local custom, but they keep moving that day from month to month and after having had a wedding anniversary on that "date" once, I know how much trouble that can cause!

Using the experience and wisdom of age, I turned to plan-B for more practical information and came across a marvelous program that I think many older Americans, not just Lake Minnetonkanites, can, and should, really enjoy. It's called the Master Gardener program.

Administered through the State Office in the Minnesota Landscape Aboretum, the Department of Horticultural Science at the University of Minnesota, the Master Gardener program offers area residents the opportunity to volunteer ("50 hours the first year and 25 hours annually thereafter"), and appears to be a wonderful way to both learn and share your enjoyment of those things that grow in the earth.

Besides, they have a fairly inexpensive national conference coming up. The Master Gardener Conference and Trade Show will be held May 28-June 1 at the Hilton in the Walt Disney World Resort, and that ain't all bad.

Of course, just hanging out at the arboretum in Chanhassen would be a great way to spend some time this spring and throughout the year, because, face it - flowers grow ... and so do people. But flowers, with all their intrinsic beauty, remain locked in the eye of the beholder. They only blossom and grow more magnificent when we share them through our knowledge and joy with others.

If you'd like to add something to your life and to the lives of others this spring, call your local County Extension Office. They are the folks who will accept and enroll you.

More information is available online at http://www.hort.agri.umn.edu/MG/mastgard.htm, or by calling Linda Wasem, the Master Gardener Program Secretary, at the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum at 952-443-1442.

If this idea doesn't grow on you, at least take the time this spring to stop and smell the roses. We'll all be glad that you did.

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